When it comes to navigating the complexities of family law, your well-meaning friends and that trusty search engine can only go so far. While their support and abundance of online information might seem tempting, there are five good reasons why you should stick to the advice of your family law attorney – the true legal expert in your corner.

Reason 1: Experience Matters. Your attorney has seen it all and then some when it comes to family law cases. From messy divorces to heated custody battles, we have the battle scars (and wisdom) to guide you through the trenches. We understand the nuances of the law, court procedures, and legal strategies that lay people may not be aware of. Friends and internet sources often provide well-meaning but legally inaccurate information.

Reason 2: Keeping It Confidential. Sure, venting to friends can be therapeutic, but do you really want your deepest, darkest family drama splashed across the local rumor mill? Your attorney is legally bound to keep your secrets safe, making them the perfect confidante for your most sensitive matters. Our advice and your information remain between us.

Reason 3: Objective Outlook. Love can make us blind, and family ties can cloud our judgment. Your attorney, however, maintains a refreshingly unbiased perspective, ensuring your decisions are based on facts, not emotions. Your internet searches may be equally biased because, consciously or unconsciously, you may be searching for the answers you want and ignoring contrary information. I remind my clients that some of the most valuable advice and information I give them is what they do not want to hear. 

Reason 4: Tailored Strategies. One size does not fit all. What happened in your neighbor’s trial, your college roommate’s settlement, or Aunt Betty’s divorce back in 1985 will almost certainly not be what happens in your case. Every family is unique, and your attorney understands that. We can craft a customized game plan that accounts for your specific circumstances, goals, and the legal landscape in your area. Online sources often provide generic advice that may not apply to your case. 

Reason 5: Court Credentials. When things get heated, and you need to take your case to court, your attorney is the only one with the legal expertise and qualifications to represent you effectively. Your friends and family can and should provide you with emotional support. That random internet commenter? They’ll have to sit this one out.

While your friends and Google might offer well-intentioned support and quick answers, only an experienced family lawyer can provide the specialized guidance, confidentiality, and courtroom advocacy you need to navigate these complex waters. Trust the professionals – we’ve got your back (and your best interests) covered. Remember, you hired us for a good reason.